Post-Divorce Archives

Is there a timeline for divorce recovery?

Divorce is a traumatic event, leading many to question what recovery truly means. After nearly three years, I continue to seek answers. My journey has included support, self-care, and facing painful memories. I’ve learned that healing isn’t linear; it demands effort and self-belief. While navigating emotional turmoil and rediscovering my identity, I’ve found that recovery is a personal path. Join me as I share insights on the road to healing after divorce. You are more than your marriage—let’s explore this journey together.

Understanding How Retirement Accounts Are Divided in Divorce

Dividing retirement accounts during a divorce can be confusing, especially because different types of accounts require different legal processes. Below is a quick comparison chart to help you understand the key differences between how these accounts are divided, what legal documents are required, and how the process affects taxes and penalties.

Breaking Free: A Survivor’s Journey Through Domestic Abuse

Breaking free from an abusive relationship is a complex and arduous journey.

Onward Intel: Financial Literacy for Kids and Teens

Divorce often brings financial changes, and it can be helpful for kids to learn about managing money early. There are free tools and programs that teach kids financial responsibility, saving, and budgeting.

Onward Intel: What is a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order)?

A QDRO protects your financial future by ensuring you receive your fair share of retirement benefits in a divorce. If your divorce involves retirement assets, ask your attorney or mediator about including a QDRO in your settlement to avoid financial pitfalls later.

Onward Tips: What to say to someone who just finalized their divorce.

When someone has just finalized their divorce, they may be feeling a mix of emotions. The key is to offer support without making assumptions or pushing them to feel a certain way. Here’s what you might say.

Onward Tips: Positive Self-Talk When You Feel Overwhelmed

When navigating divorce, it’s normal to feel completely overwhelmed. Yet with these short but mighty self-talk reminders, you’ll be surprised how quickly you can calm your nervous system.

Onward Intel: Modifying Maintenance (Alimony) Post Divorce

Divorce settlements often include spousal maintenance to help one spouse maintain financial stability after the marriage ends. Whether you are paying or receiving maintenance, you may have the right to request a modification based on significant changes in financial or personal circumstances.

Onward Intel: Dividing Child-Related Expenses

Dividing child-related expenses is often one of the most confusing and emotionally charged aspects of divorce, but having clarity upfront will make a huge difference for you and your children.

Cost-Benefit Analysis: Should You Seek a Modification of Maintenance?

Thinking about a modification of spousal maintenance? Before moving forward, it’s important to weigh the financial and practical benefits against the potential costs and risks.

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